Okay so there’s this boy who’s been picking on me since the beginning of the school year, pushing me around, calling me names, spreading rumors, etc. And I’ve been able to handle it pretty well until he got his friends in on it and now whenever he’s around me they like to be jerks to me too (laughing at all his rude jokes, making jerky comments, etc.)
Today I went to an info meeting about playing football next year (I played in fifth and sixth grade and loved it, was a wide receiver) and the jackwad starts calling me Miss America and tomboy sl*t and all this stuff and his friends are practically peeing their pants laughing. i was so humiliated it took every fiber of my common sense not to flying-tackle him and knock his teeth out.
He likes to grin and wink at me and mouth rude words at me. He’s mean to other people but not this mean. I’m sick of him and i want to know why can’t he quit picking on me?
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what a loser
Chances are the guy is just a jack *** trying to get a reaction. I know that nobody wants to hear this but if the problem persists, it’s best you tell a teacher.
Report him he is a bully. don’t let him get away with it………
to be honest most people who are like that just do it to make them feel better about themselves. they need to have that attention from other people… best bet would be either to go straight up to him and try to talk to him or just ignore it some people are just jerks
he’s a class a jerk tell him “your a waste of my time” and walk away and ignore him. whatever reason he’s doing it is wrong cuz its not cool for a guy to pick on a chick, and he’s probably insecure. if you walk with confidence those who aren’t will try and tear you down don’t give in and retaliate, i know its hard but it gets better.
I think he probably picks on you because you react to him. In high school I had some jocks that would try to bully me and I just stood up to them. they would call me a name so I would call them one back. The more you give them a sense of power the more they will abuse you. What do you have to fear? Tell them off.
I know its hard but you just have to stay strong. When you are older none of these people will matter. They are just jerks! I went through the same thing when I was your age. I was bullied from 2nd to 7th grade and it was really difficult to deal with. I stayed strong and ended up being a really happy person with a bright future. All the people that picked on me aren’t in college, they are pregnant, or got someone pregnant. You be the bigger person and remember that they are just sad people. If you can’t handle it I would bring it to the attention of a teacher you trust. Take it from someone who was bullied that it will get better!
I’m very sorry about your situation. I would suggest remaining confident, and as if the comments mean nothing to you. It’s possible that if he doesn’t receive a reaction, he may stop. Try to avoid being in places alone with this guy. If you cannot, I would suggest notifying a teacher or guidance counselor.
Bullies sometimes come from families who yell, name-call, and belittle one another. Bullies sometimes choose someone who they think is weaker then them and belittle them with statements that they actually attribute to themselves. Bullies are often insecure and don’t realize the pain and trouble they are inflicting on others.
Stay strong and be confident. You can overcome this.
He is a BULLY! It may have started out that he liked you and was too afraid to be nice to you. So he got frustrated and now he is getting negative attention from you and it has snowballed into this situation.
You need to go to the authorities, Principal, Councilor and tell them he is bullying you.
Good Luck!
Because he’s a bully – that’s what bullies do, they pick on people whom they think are weak and can’t defend themselves. I’ve been bullied for about a week in 5th grade, I smashed the asshole’s mouth with a wooden mallet in front of his friends. No one bullied me since then.
I’m not saying that you should resort to violence but you need to confront your bully head on, that’s the only way to make him stop. These people are weaklings and carry some emotional baggage themselves (probably from domestic violence or bullying) and they try to take it out on other people that they perceive to be weaker than them. What they fear most are people who fight back and are stronger than them. Confront him, make him know you’re no pushover, just do it.